Yeah, he's coming to terms with those flaws.

"I mean, you can understand the rational behind it, but you haven't done anything to warrant it."

Yet. But Nida doesn't expect she will. As for the other thing, he sorta just shrugs. Yeah, he did. What are you going to do about it?

"How do you deal with a one-sided thing? Seifer's advice wasn't... the most useful. And I have a feeling that you were the major moving factor in that relationship."