"Hi pot, my name is kettle. And you're wrong to say you don't matter. You matter to me, Seifer. That hasn't changed just because of whatever shit you saw up there."

Does he not remember how concerned Nida was for him? Sending him messages through multiple people? Were it not for Nida's overwhelming need to escape, he might have gone searching for Seifer. To support him. As it was...

Seifer's got a point.

"I'm not even remotely okay," he confirms. "But there are people around me hurting, and that is way more important. Helping them. That's what today is about. Dinner with you and Rinoa who are hurting because of what you saw. Dinner with Tommy and Billy because of what Billy saw and them losing Wanda. Dinner, if she shows, with Sam, because I can't even begin to tell you how bad she was losing Danny."

It's about healing. Not necessarily Nida's normal thing, but the white at his wrist... He's not his usual him.