"Okay, let's be honest. I have no idea how to do this. Willa was literally handed over to me in her youth and then was in my life since then. I don't know a whole lot about dating," he points out, figuring that Vasquez should have warning.

"That said, all I can tell you? If I wanted someone out of my life because of something they told me? I wouldn't be looking for them, or asking their lover if he'd seen them and he won't stop asking me." He pauses and then adds. "And one time, fairly drunk, he added that he didn't care about my opinion and stormed off."