Is this another wrong thing? He isn't trying to force it one way or another, he just wants Bodhi safe while he works this out. "We could get a fire in the stove for you, hang a blanket over the door, if you want to stay." If Bodhi doesn't want him around, he can just bring the warmth to Bodhi.

Jude, given a home, hasn't been able to get used to all the space. He's had a trailer and a dorm, barely grew up with a real bedroom--it's been habit to narrow the space down and forget the house as a whole.

All these extra rooms? Bodhi can transform them to his own needs. Jude hardly feels an ownership of them, after all this time.